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It is true in our contemporary world that everyone wants to be a leader but not everyone can give what it takes to become a leader. When asked “do you want to be a leader?” everyone is posed to giving a resounding answer Yes to the question, but not everyone are prepared to be a leader. Growing up as a child is always full of hallucinatory imagination – I want to become a doctor, engineer, banker, or whatever. But as the child grows up little will they realize that what they intend to become is only full of imagination not reality because they begin to discover the kind of career that matches up their interest or ability later on in life. So the question does not lie in what you want to become but what you can in essence become in life.
Most failure our
contemporary leaders experience in leadership position does not stem from their
inability to lead rather their problem starts from inability to first lead
themselves by gaining mastery over the control of daily living. You can start
leading effectively in life by first leading your personal brand, not until you
are in charge of people.
Once you can start from yourself and people can see
how effective you are, they willingly surrender to your influence; that is the
viewpoint where impact becomes visible.
Here
are 5 salient truths about leadership:
1. Leadership
has ever been that of a standpoint of influence not affluence where the
individuals first lead themselves effectively before leading others. Simply
put: Leadership is leading without title and the person you can ever lead
successfully in life is YOURSELF not group of people. It's when distinguished as
a leading people in our personal brand before we can have the mantle of
leadership over group of people. So
don't ever seek for people to lead, seek for YOURSELF TO LEAD.
2. The
act of leadership is an attitude of service to humanity that comes with
responsibilities and empowerment. Response to abilities that lie within set the
individuals apart as leaders who can lead effectively in sphere of influence
and empower others in developing their skills and knowledge through the use of
their personal brand. In essence, a leader does not just stop at empowering
themselves but goes that point into empowering others.
3. Leadership in her larger
context is not a function of age factor but a matured mind. Growth never paints
us as being matured due to age factor because it only spelt out our physical or
natural development. The concept of maturity defines how we could figure out good
reasoning along thought line and handle effectively things that pertain to
life.
4. Ability to control
yourself before having lead to control others determines how effective your
personal leadership can be. Leadership starts from our individual self, HE WHO
CAN’T GOVERN HIMSELF CAN’T GOVERN A CITY, STATE OR NATION. How resolute you are
in controlling your emotion can determine how you can be an empathetic leader
who shows empathy as a quality.
5.
Leaders don’t just emerge in a twinkling
second or twilight, leaders are prepared for leadership. Preparation becomes
imperative for one to assume into leadership position. Inclusive of the
preparation is self discovery where you first gain mastery of yourself, know
pro and con of your personal brand and train in line with the required skill
set.
Just before you forget
in haste: LEADERSHIP IS NOT A MARATHON
IT’S A RELAY, SO PASS IT ON.
– EMMANUEL ABIONA,
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